information overload?verarara. (out for supper) says (1:13 AM):
femme; it's a luscious mix of words and tricks. said:
i saw your blog and i dont even know why i'm doing this but i thought i should just say
femme; it's a luscious mix of words and tricks. said:
i think you should get a bit of a grip
verarara. (out for supper) says (1:13 AM):
that's what vanessa msged me jus now when i was out.
Jianwei. says (1:14 AM):
oh..
Jianwei. says (1:14 AM):
and your thoughts?
verarara. says (1:14 AM):
u saw my blog alr meh?
Jianwei. says (1:14 AM):
loading
verarara. says (1:14 AM):
i dont udst what she means and why she said tt.
verarara. says (1:14 AM):
and i wana ask yr thoughts.
Jianwei. says (1:18 AM):
okay..
Jianwei. says (1:18 AM):
i've finished reading the blog
Jianwei. says (1:18 AM):
i think she typed that cos it looks like it's a lot of bombardment on her on your part..
verarara. says (1:19 AM):
bombardment on cassan?
verarara. says (1:19 AM):
or vanessa?
Jianwei. says (1:20 AM):
on cassan and the whole matter
verarara. says (1:22 AM):
ok, anything else to add?
Jianwei. says (1:23 AM):
i'm scrutinising to see why else..
Jianwei. says (1:23 AM):
give me a while okay
Jianwei. says (1:24 AM):
basically, i think it's because of the length that you went to post every detail out for everyone to see on your blog..
Jianwei. says (1:24 AM):
as in, it would appear to be like that..
Jianwei. says (1:24 AM):
even tho it's not meant to be..
Jianwei. says (1:24 AM):
cos like 1 shot everything thrown out to shoot at cassan and the whole issue..
Jianwei. says (1:25 AM):
maybe she thought you were getting overboard or obsessed or something..
Jianwei. says (1:25 AM):
just my guess..
Jianwei. says (1:25 AM):
you should actually ask her instead if you wanna know what she meant..
verarara. says (1:25 AM):
i asked but she wouldnt reply.
verarara. says (1:26 AM):
anyw, so what're ur own thougths bout it
Jianwei. says (1:26 AM):
i think the convo between you and her wasn't that necessary..
Jianwei. says (1:26 AM):
as in..
Jianwei. says (1:27 AM):
if you cut and paste the whole convo out, it seems like you're trying to make her look ugly instead of actually dealing with your problem of friends that take you for granted..
Jianwei. says (1:27 AM):
depending on what you actually wanna deal with la..
Jianwei. says (1:27 AM):
individual friends or the problem itself..
Jianwei. says (1:29 AM):
cos if i'm addressing the problem, i would not post the convo.. probably type something like the gist of the convo..
verarara. says (1:29 AM):
but cos she of what she tagged, like what fi said 'whacked the public'; i feel if i dont do the whole convo, ppl wouldnt knw the 2 side of the story as she said people should? so if it makes sense, i'm doing justice for her too. ha.
Jianwei. says (1:29 AM):
ya..
Jianwei. says (1:29 AM):
so you're actually aiming 1 person..
Jianwei. says (1:29 AM):
not the problem..
Jianwei. says (1:30 AM):
you're aiming the problem in 1 person..
verarara. says (1:30 AM):
i'd say i'm going for both.
Jianwei. says (1:30 AM):
not the problem in friends..
Jianwei. says (1:30 AM):
it's a lengthy convo and not everyone would really be reading it.. even your other friends from the same click..
Jianwei. says (1:31 AM):
i just scrolled again.. it's a REALLY lengthy convo..
Jianwei. says (1:31 AM):
hahaha
Jianwei. says (1:32 AM):
ppl who are more objective would probably expect you to aim the problem also.. not the person..
Jianwei. says (1:32 AM):
i'm thinking in the perspective of someone who doesn't know anything la..
Jianwei. says (1:33 AM):
but my thoughts aren't the laws..
Jianwei. says (1:33 AM):
i might be wrong..
verarara. says (1:33 AM):
no u'r pretty right bout what you said. as in, you help me better compose what i did think of in a gist but neevr quite in full formed understanding.
Jianwei. says (1:34 AM):
okay..
Jianwei. says (1:34 AM):
then what're your own thought about it now?
verarara. says (1:34 AM):
it's jus very me to do a everything kinda thing, like in a overly loso way.
verarara. says (1:34 AM):
as in, most convo that i copy and paste in my blog, i do the whole chunk usually, i dont really cut things halfway. i'm like the student who takes down each and every word my lecturer says. haha.
verarara. says (1:34 AM):
it's in general tt i tend to go in very detail kinda person.
verarara. says (1:35 AM):
not just towards this issue and definitely not just aiming cassan, i feel.
Jianwei. says (1:35 AM):
like i said, it depends on your objective..
Jianwei. says (1:35 AM):
you can't achieve everything..
Jianwei. says (1:35 AM):
you keep something in mind when you do it.
Jianwei. says (1:36 AM):
if you're trying to express yourself in the plight of friendships taken for granted, then express yourself in that manner..
Jianwei. says (1:36 AM):
if it's for the case of specific people, then in the other manner..
Jianwei. says (1:37 AM):
you can do both but the result of how ppl receive your expression will not be how you want it to be..
Jianwei. says (1:38 AM):
like now, you pour everything out, to express your unhappiness with friendships AND friends, ppl might think that you're overdoing it..
Jianwei. says (1:38 AM):
okay..
verarara. says (1:38 AM):
but nvm la, it's my blog, whatever's up is up. so let it be lor
Jianwei. says (1:39 AM):
yup..
Jianwei. says (1:39 AM):
it's ultimately still your choice..
verarara. says (1:39 AM):
thanks dear!