Purely Your Imagination

vera in context.

vera's johari

(ripped this somewhere which i think is really true!) ARIES WOMAN >> >>She thinks the world is watching her through the eye glasses of rose petal >>frame. She thinks people think and talk about her only about good things >>and often disappoint to know the fact that they are not true and not even >>real, so she will feel hurt. She think her path has to be a beautiful one. >>She >>think only good things so she prepares and always make arrangement for >>herself to be in the right path always, quite systematic indeed. >> >>If there is no guy in her life, she will be busy with herself. This >>seemingly ordinary woman will push herself to meet her goal. Her face >>mostly will be slim and long, high cheek bone, Eye brow slightly curve up, >>slight tall more than short, thin lips and she will have quite a confusing >>or mixture of character. >> >>Sometimes, she will be very careful about guy she will mingle with. She >>thinks as if she has a main CPU in her head and she could memorize >>everything from her childhood. When she faces with problems, she will >>handle them and solving them very well, and at the same time showing other >>people >>that she has that capability. She can put her mind in solving problems in >>crisis better than many other Zodiac. Once she determine to do thing, >>nothing will stop her. >> >>Woman in this Zodiac could be totally different from one woman to another >>woman. You could see her in the party dancing like flash dance or dirty >>dancing, as well you could also see her as an old fashion lady or a geek. >>She could be someone flashy and wanted by many men, or she could be a cold >>and non-social person. She will have her own way to win you over. Once she >>choose you, she will need to be proud of you. >> >>"Love" is not as important to her as "Marriage". Her real goal in life is >>"Safety" and her position in other people sight need to be "Secure". She >>plans her life, and socially life easily and very carefully. She is also >>very artistic and realistic, so if you are a nobody or nothing, no chance >>because she loves ambition and a good life. She need lots of love, but do >>not >>want and do not belief in an occasional or unconventional love. >> >>She is a proud in nature type, so if you see a woman in this Zodiac come >>from a poor family, she will act like a woman from a noble family by birth >>anyway (certainly there are always exception). She always look cool even >>when she is not. She like to make people see her as "secure and confident" >>even she is a mixed emotion and mixed character type. If she is mad, you >>can tell right away and she can stay moody for quite a long time. >> >>You never have all her times, for she likes to work hard and also spent >>some spare times working for charity. You will see woman in this zodiac a >>"Volunteer" for camp, and if she is in a high society, she will most >>likely be a president or a V.P. of a "Club". She is a romantic and >>artistic, but being poor and unstable is certainly not in her dreams. Her >>beautiful >>imaginations need to be realistic, for failure is not in her plan. >> >>A Goat always climb high, so either she start from a low point or a high >>point, she will make sure at the end she will have the best spot. She will >>not show her ambition, but she will show that she satisfy with herself >>now. Once you look back she already moved up again , quietly but sure. >> >>If she is your love one, be supportive and understand her. She is >>stubborn, but she will listen. She will act like a gentle fragile person, >>but in fact she can stick you down like a super glue without you knowing >>it.

i want/i need.

air. love. food. air. air. air.

two-oh-oh-seven!

this year i dont think i want to do a resolutions list, cos it seems that when you acknowledge a problem, the problem becomes more permanent than it was. like the number of times i've told myself to go on and diet and lose weight but i ended up eating more and putting more kilos. and just when i start to rejoice with the body i have, i miraculously lose so much weight my c-cup boobs pretty much deflated too. argh.

so in commemorating the end of 2006, i'll go with a love list instead. below(not in order of importance), are the people 2006 has blessed me with, to see me throughthe good and bad times.

the bestie, joy. it's been a full 12years. i remember 26th dec, waking up to the smell of freshly baked cookies from our previous night's hard work and tossing over to see her sleeping beside me. and i just lie there smiling... she's the one who knows all the ugly parts of me and still loves me the way i am. able to tell what's coming from me without me even breathing it out, feel the slightest nudge from me and can tell i'm probably gonna let out the stinkiest fart/burp and still love about it(though she calls me a bimbo most of the times), i love you my joy my joy my joy. they dont ask if we're sisters for no reason, though she's my mama really, she looks out and care for me and still stand by me like no one ese in the world would. I lOVE YOU, and that's pretty much underrated.

i can listen to her play forever.

*to be continued. seriously lack of sleep.
*edited. i wanted to continue the other night but i had to rack my brains a little too much to think of the things to thank bout each person that came to my mind. then, i thought of what xinyu said, 'if you can find a reason why you love someone, then you dont really love that person, cos what happens to the other flaws that do exist in that person?' so here, i'm gonna mention the things i remember about each person i love, as i go.

sotong balls eepei.
despite the times we do have an arguement bout the slightest issue, i do love you babe. to me, you look the prettiest when you wake up in the morning, blur look, no make up. and you've got good skin, stop thinking you need all that coverage cos one day all those stuff is gonna give you worst skin problems! thanks for the times you were there, like.. assessment day, and how you offered to me the one i disturb with the smses to ruff, 'better to you than him', you said.

sarah yeeeee.
the girl who induced 'movies = popcorn!!!' in me. now i feel weird sitting in theatres not munching popcorn. and her, she can eat shitloads of popcorn, we order a huge cup of it that can fit both our heads in, and when i'm too filled to even put another popcorn in, i can still hear her scraping the bottoms for more. i haven seen much movies now and i really miss it hon! but thank you for your long correspondences in the cyber life, about getting over ruff. you know what, i think you're a really smart person, you see and say the things people might not have. but please stop saying almost picture of yourself is ugly, they're not. and cos i'm a little lost in selecting pretty pictures of you, since everytime i think you look good in something you'd say it's not, i'm gonna put the picture that most remind me of your silliness.

ok, kidding. how bout this...

your legs are hot babe, quit complaining. =)

ok here's another picture of you i'm sure you wont complain.

singuan.
you said, 'whatever will be, will be. que vera vera.' thanks, it's true, but dont believe in it too much hon. there's a period everyone misses the kickass dingdong-ness in you like this...

and i'm sure no one wants to see you go through that again. you're beautiful and you're worth so so much more.

my papa, neyton.
you know how sometimes i feel like pulling your balls and tie knots with them for making mama joy upset. but then, for all the freebies i get when hanging out with you guys...teehee! i forgive you. waha! ok really, i'd like to see joy and ya walk down the aisle some day, despite the hiccups here and there, i think you'd make joy a very happy woman. and i can see that already.
thanks for your fatherly concern in my relationship problems. i really appreciate it.

jeanne jeanne jeanne jeanne jeanne jeanne oh you sexy babe! (karma chameleon song tune)
"ooh i want to take pictures with the mushrooms!! mushrooms!!" thank goodness i only like to eat them. i see you for almost 1year odd and i cant tell all that you've been going till you told me. i mean look at how jovial you always look, big laughs and giggles and that big heart of yours. but you've gotta control that big anger too! hee. oh and i know i said 'dont gimme any(xmas cards)!' when you were buying them, but i dont mean dont send an sms and wish me too lah! i baked you xmas cookies man! ok, but they're still with me. pass you when i see you, if it's not gone bad already. =( anyway, i dont think there's any one who cant love jeanne. i say, EVERYONE'S GOTTA LOVE THIS HOT MAMA!

xinds.xinyu.cindy. starfish?? OH MAN SO MANY NAMES!

or childhood friend she says, though from what i remember, we've only done a single one-on-one. BUT, that's fine cos when i talked to her, i can see that she really listens. she's the one who really listens. she's the one who cover her mouth and snigger like a little girl in the way that were i a man, my heart will grow so fond of her. she's the one who tells the indians have full body of dark eye ring joke that makes everyone laugh like siao.

jeline, clara and crystal.

these are the girls who make my schooldays sane and bearable on assessment week. though i found myself getting pissed with crystal who disappears during that crucial week! through lunchbreak, teabreak, fagbreak, drinksbreak, toiletbreak and esp self-declaredbreak that got us sent out of class by the nicest lecturer we have. aha! ah neways, jeline, the pretentiously quiet one who blabbers non-stop when you least expect and hope for. but she's really sincere in helping out and guiding you along, you can expect her to give you morning calls everyday just so you can be in time for school! clara, her mousey look and tweetybird voice makes me feel like pinching her only that will make me look like a bully more than anything since i'm twice her size, bah! and i'm happy for her she's found strength to walk away from that painful relationship and find someone who treats her really well. crystal...i've nothing to talk bout her cos she didnt reserve that dress for me, pfft! haha. kidding. crystal is the friend you can sit somewhere with, just fagging and drinking coffee and keeping quiet, just for the company kinda friend, (though sometimes it does get a little chilly. haha. no lah). she's also the friend you sms her bout being fine 200 and she rushes to the atm to transfer you the whole lump sum, makes me wanna cry to think bout it.

cassandrasaurus.
another one who slept in my room and shared my fart. teehee. i'm really sincerely happy she's found cliff, the only one who rightly deserves her so far and if i may add, can take all her silly bimbotic nonsense like her 'i'm so lame..'s. it will make a lot of people really happy to see her walk down the aisle with cliff and i think she'll be the bride who's got so many bridemaids/sisters that she needs a double-decker bus to bring us around. i appreciate her asking me to join cliff and her for prawn bee hoon that day i was down, i mean, she's probably havent got enough alone time with cliff herself but she just asked me along so i'll be fine. and am i proud i took some pretty sweet pictures for them! =) maybe i can be their pre-wedding photographer or something. hee. but i sure wana catch the 101 hilariously cute and dumb faces she can screw her face into.

pink nipples. ok, gary.

we didnt manage to take much pictures cos we hardly hang out after all and the last 2times we did, i got pissed drunk and you had to take care of me, so thanks. but neways, i look crap in this picture but cos you look fine, there. thanks for your chyna-mode smses in making sure i'm fine and alive. please do not do that green hairdo again, it's hideously horrendous. haha! and ginny calls you ah boy, but please lah, being shortie doesnt make you boyboy, you're almost ah pek already, always doing the ah pek business. and you and ben should stop laughing bout watermelons, it's not funny, they're gone. haha.

arif.

thanks for that night you knew i was crying and you messaged me to make sure i'm fine. =)

daphne BABY!
the way she calls people baby in the voice that dont quite sound like it coming from that little frame of hers, is just so...orgasmic! i like! girl, everyone has told you before and so did i and you're probably sick of hearing it yourself cos you yourself know it too, but i'll give it a go again! STOP STICKING AROUND WITH SOMEONE WHO DOESNT CHERISH IT. because on nights when no one's around to hold you tight for you to cry to, you've only got yourself.

charrrrrrrlene.

30th november you made sure i wont find my way to someone's place and do silly shit stuff by getting me out shopping at bugis. it is, very very much remembered and appreciated. i wish you good health from this year onwards, seriously it scares me the rate you get sick. it's good you've stopped fagging.

gene and anqi.

you guys know how much you've been there for me like i do, thanks a lot. i miss spaghetti and mahjong combo sessions with y'all!!! and cycling at east coast and get emo too. teehee. i think i miss anqi more, especially when everyone i introduce her to will definitely remember her for her super loud mouth, hilarious i tell you.

huishan.

the one who still bothers forwarding smses and making a point to keep in touch in her ways. *hugs*

linderr.

she sent me 4pages long sms to advice me on what i should do bout moving on even though i've only met her a couple of times. i wont forget. =)

ginny, my love.

you look like jamie yeo, dont complain, i think she's beautiful. of everyone mentioned about myself being happy for, i'm most most most happy for you. you should know why. and i really love the thinking-aloud sessions we do, they're very very fulfiling. and thanks for believing in me and supporting me the way you do and loving me despite the things you've heard. if there's one thing that's able to really have me crying that night, it'll be how much you've touched me with your words. you, i want to keep for life. =)

last but not least, my family...
papa.

for the almost every night when i end work or come home about 11ish, you'll drive out to drive me home. for taking the trouble of waking me up for dinner or making sure mom keeps food for me if you know that i'll be home early. for worrying shitless with me about my job issues and trying to think of solutions for me. for cutting the fruits every night and buying tomato juices for me all the time. for working your ass of to provide for this family that you sometimes sit in front of the tv sleeping or starring into space, your mind still at work. for sleeping lesser than anyone of us. for not philandering and drinking/smoking and gambling and wasting you time and having close to no friends cos you dont go out with them, for this family. thank you. i know you love me and i love you too.

maameemoo.

it's sad how you no longer like the camera, you used to take so many beautiful pictures. maybe one day i'll be like you and it really scares me. yes it scares me how much i'm really quite similar to you yet, we're often loggerheads at a lot of issues. but it took me a while to get it in me that ultimately, you do what you do cos you're my mom and you love and care for me. to hell to those guys whom let me down you said, yes, to hell with them. =) you've got dad and you know you're very lucky and you only want me to have the life you have. i love you too.

the youth is gone but they're still beautiful. the reason why i'm no longer fighting and rebelling against them even when they get pretty unreasonable sometimes, is because they do what they preach. there's never a night i hear them telling us that they'll be home late cos they are going out with friends or anything along the line. and for that, they deserve every right to place a curfew on their 20 years old daughter(though i do grumble bout that sometimes) and hold old fashioned and high expectations on their kids.

the brother.
i remember when we were kids, we play soccer, legos and hideandseek which involved stuff like holding a key infront of ourselves and call it hiding. as much as in dislike the fact that you go chc, you're still the little brother of mine who said, 'dunno, break because we got nothing to talk loh.' and who entertains me with...

teehee. i dont know if he'll kill me if he ever sees these here. but well. haha. oh! check out his eyebrows and imagine how he'll look when he's botak in the army!! hehe. ah... i cant say those 3 words to him though, makes me feel gay bout it. we're like brudders man! haha.

the sister.

please put off more weight or i wont buy you famousamous/prata/hokkeinmee/prawnmee/chocolates/sweets/sausages/*insert all sort of food* anymore. oh why does the house feel so empty and quiet when you're in camp? haha. i miss you lah. and i know, 2months have passed and i still haven bring you to Escape. argh. next week? =) love you belly much. haha!

oh and how can i forget, my gramps and grams.
paternal side ones, but no longer together. haha gramps got 2 separated wives, how cool. neways, gramps will always be there whenever, wherever, as soon as i call and say i need a ride. if there's one guy who's got this quality in him, i'll consider marrying. =) and both gramps and grams always push money to me, even though they know how i squander them away. i'm ashamed yes, but not guilty cos in turn i do buy them nice food with the money. =) and grams always ask, 'aiyo. why are you still with that china boy... you'll suffer ah!' grams, no more! but i tell you, you also suffered and he's not from china leh. haha. sigh. it'll be such a great thing if gramps and grams are still together. i love them a lot, it scares me sometimes to think that everyone leaves one day...

and then... 2006 had seen me letting some people down and also myself being let down by others too. lost myself a little here and there, once or twice and sarah's right in every aspect, i know. ah... i'm trying i'm trying. 2007 is here, dont stop believing in me just yet.

*breathe in deep air. ooh. i know how very loved i am. =)

Monday, January 01, 2007 at 8:46 PM

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